Pasrah Segalanya....

Assalamualaikum,

Ini adalah post ke-400 blog ini. Menjangkau 9 tahun, macam-macam dah dicoretkan kat sini. Dari setahun ke setahun tema dan isi kandungan posting pun lain-lain. Tahun ini biarlah benda yang di post akan bagi manfaat buat semua.

Pasrah, maksudnya menyerahkan segala-galanya kepada Allah S.W.T. Setelah kita berusaha dengan sedaya upaya di dalam sesuatu perkara, maka kita serahkan kepada Allah akan hasilnya. Andainya berhasil, maka kita ucapkan Alhamdulillah. Jika sekiranya pada pandangan kita ianya tidak berhasil, sepatutnya, kita ucapkan jua Alhamdulillah. Inilah sebenarnya cara untuk mencapai maksud redha akan takdir dan ketentuan Ilahi.

Pasrah adalah penghubung di antara fasa usaha dan hasil. Redha adalah kemuncaknya. Bagaimanakah caranya kita pasrah? Sudah pasti dengan berdoa kepada Allah S.W.T kerana Allah Maha Mendengar lagi Maha Mengetahui dan Maha Mengasihani.

Pernah hati ini terguris 

Dengan fitnah dan tohmahan menghiris
Sehingga terasa diri ini hina
Kerna tiada siapa yang sudi membela

Kutabahkan hatiku harungi hidup
Biarpun tiada siapa yang menemani
Keseorangan aku di laluan sepi
Ditinggalkan mereka yang ku percayai

Namun ku tahu ada hikmahnya
Setiap segala yang menimpa diri

Kuserahkan segala pada-Mu Tuhan
Yang Berkuasa jua mencipta

Kerana Engkau Maha Mengetahui 
Segala apa yang terbuku di hati

Ya Allah tidakku terdaya lagi
Menahan dugaan yang mencabar ini
Terasa bagai noktah telah kutemui
Mengakhiri segala yang telah ku mulai

Ya Allah Engkau lindungilah aku
Bekalkanlah daku dengan limpahan iman
Agar tabahku menghadapi dugaan
Agar tidakku berhenti di pertengahan

Kini di sini aku berdiri
Bersama harapan yang tulus suci
Agar terbitlah kembali mentari pagi
Setelah malamku berkalut benci

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Kepada Allah kita berserah..

Wassalamualaikum..

Why do people cheat?

Salam..

Why do people cheat? -- I got this headline on my Yahoo page today. When i read it, i found that there is certain issues that made people cheat. It is a matter of situation, the time, the place or the people themselves. Let me just put here the 9 reasons why people cheats. You could read the original article over here.

Here are some situations that make people cheat:

1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.

2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.

3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.

4. Because They Let You
If any girl ever cheated on me, I'd break up with her immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back.

5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.

6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.

7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you.

8. The Thrill
Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, andcreating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.

9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.

There you go.. Now you know why some people cheat. Among all of the cheaters, the greatest one is ourselves. When do we cheat? We cheat when we are not being thankful and grateful with what God had given to us. Why did I say that? It's up to you to find out. But cheating to oneself should not be confused with self-confidence. You want to know why? Let me tell you my view on this. Having self-confidence means that you will having effort to support in what you are believing. Cheating? you do nothing...

Make sure to read on the full entry at Yahoo. I'm sure there's a lot more to be learnt once you reached there. Adios~

Wassalam....